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Haters Gonna Hate.

Thanks to Google Analytics and a sudden flurry of Pattern Workshop sales (yes, that happens even after negative publicity!), I recently realized that I’ve been the topic of some heated discussion in the sewing blogging community. Yes, GOMI, I’m talking to you. And yes, I know it’s happened several times since I launched my course. My husband has physically removed the computer from my hands on multiple occasions in the past, but this time, I feel a response is warranted.

Some people (personal friends and students in my course) have come to my defense, but I’ve never bothered with responding directly. Well, you got your wish. And here’s my response.

My students have been called “suckers” for taking my course since I am not a classroom-trained patternmaker. Well, my student body includes Big-4 licensees, retired grandmothers who simply enjoy learning, stay-at-home moms burning the midnight oil to make extra money for their families, disabled pattern designers who can no longer draft on paper, young and resourceful entrepreneurs avoiding the rat race and retired veterans looking to create income streams. I have even had patternmaking professors take my course so they can share the knowledge with their students. There are no “suckers” in my course. Most of my students are smart and driven self starters with dreams of creating successful businesses - whether small or large.

Let’s get one thing straight: I DO NOT TEACH PATTERNMAKING. At least, not in the traditional/academic sense. I have never claimed to be a professional patternmaker, and I don’t intend to ever become one. My students are expected to either have a working knowledge of pattern drafting already or to be willing to learn on their own using suggested textbooks.

There’s a reason why I sew with other people’s patterns: I have more enjoyable/profitable/less time-consuming things to do than draft my own clothing patterns. Yes, I have patterns for sale, and yes, I might release more patterns in the future. But that’s business. I create(d) patterns because 1) it helped my credibility when I initially released Pattern Workshop, 2) it’s a fun diversion from other business activities and 3) it’s an additional income stream which helps me provide for my family and support my fabric hoarding tendencies.

But as a side note - I do find it interesting that the same people who decry these amateur, not-professionally-trained designers also take every opportunity to bash Big 4 pattern companies. Are these companies not staffed by professionally trained designers with degrees and years of experience in patternmaking? Where exactly are all these expert patternmakers if not working for large and well-known pattern companies? Do they all work for ready-to-wear designers? Couture houses? Perhaps these brilliant designers know how to fit every curve of a woman’s body, yet they don’t sell patterns because they don’t know how to create a marketable pattern. (But hey, I have got the course for them if they want to learn!)

Should a person not sew if they don’t have a degree in garment construction? Do sewing bloggers have no business sharing their creations if they haven’t sent designs down a runway? Is the self-taught sewist banned from teaching because she has no classroom training? It seems that the sewing blogging community fully supports a self-taught sewist/designer until she tries to (and succeeds at) monetizing her learned skills. The second a blogger starts making money doing something she’s learned, this community develops a crab mentality toward her. I’ve seen it happen again and again.

But just like a pattern designer might take a course in small-business accounting (from someone who is inexperienced in patternmaking) or the history of costume making (from someone equally inexperienced in patternmaking), he/she takes my course to learn software. The beauty of my course (or so I’ve been told) is that I only teach the parts that are relevant to creating digital patterns. There’s no need to spend years learning the myriad capabilities of Adobe programs when I can teach it in 29 lessons. And when I say “lessons,” we’re not talking about 2-minute videos. The course contains hours and hours of video instruction and worksheets that shave weeks and even months off each designer’s lead time. “Lessons” is a subjective term that shouldn’t be debated without a peek into my course material.

What I DO teach is Adobe Illustrator and InDesign for the purpose of creating sewing patterns. Yes, I am self-taught. No, I do not have a degree in patternmaking or graphic design. A comment was made recently that I must, “at most, have two years of experience using Illustrator.” Well, no, not exactly. I have been using Illustrator since 2004…so, 11 years. As for InDesign, I started using Quark XPress (a similar and now defunct software) in high school and learned InDesign in 2004 or 2005. So again, 10+ years. I also teach fabric design for BurdaStyle, and no, I am not a fabric designer. I joke that I’m a “technician, not an artist.” My goal is (and has always been) to give artists/designers the skills they need to get their ideas out of their heads and into the hands of those who can enjoy their creations (myself included).

There is a survey at the end of my course, and students are able to rate several aspects of it on a scale of 1-5. I have never gotten lower than a 3 on any measure, and those are VERY rare. Even the few 3 ratings I have received have been accompanied with glowing, thoughtfully written reviews about everything else in the course except for maybe one or two areas the student thought I could improve. It is usually the InDesign lessons which receive lower scores, and that is because I don’t go into as much detail on it as I do on Illustrator.

As for refunds, I have given two since launching the course. One was for a woman who enrolled twice and forgot that she’d already purchased the course. The other was for a designer who emailed me around the time I had my son asking if the course was for her. She was hoping to draft patterns for manufacture, but I didn’t respond in time to tell her that it probably wouldn’t help her since most factories require a certain type of file that Illustrator doesn’t provide. She kindly asked for a refund since I was slow in responding, and I was happy to provide it as she was starting up a business on a limited budget.

These same antagonists have accused me of single-handedly “ruining the PDF pattern business” with my course by flooding the market with poor-quality patterns. I wholeheartedly disagree. Those who are truly driven to create and sell PDF patterns will figure it out one way or the other. I have one student who previously digitized her patterns in PowerPoint. POWERPOINT, people. (THAT is determination.) And I have several others who traced their patterns with Sharpie markers and scanned them into PDFs. What I have done is given people who would be putting patterns out ANYWAY the tools to make them better.

In addition, anyone who understands the free market economy knows that the leaders in any industry will naturally rise to the top, and the companies who sell subpar products and provide bad customer service will fail. The same is true in the PDF sewing pattern business. If anything, I am dramatically increasing the selection of PDF patterns available to sewists by giving would-be designers the tools they need to stop dreaming and start selling. Word of mouth will prevent unskilled patternmakers from going far in our community.

So, I guess my bottom line for all the haters out there is this: I’m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake…shake it off, shake it off. And I’ll do so while sewing a crappy pattern from one of my crappy students who took my crappy class. And we will all be over here looking fab in our handmade clothes made from fabric we purchased with our millions of dollars in profit we swindled from our sucker students and customers.

Because you know, we totally make millions.

You’re welcome.

  • http://crafting-a-rainbow.tumblr.com/ Gillian

    Well said!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thanks, Gillian!

  • Heather Feather

    I haven’t taken your class so i can’t comment on that, but i think its wonderful what you’ve done. You’ve really helped people create fun and interesting patterns and make a little money. You’re an expert in those software programs, so you can definitely teach them. I’ve never thought your course was teaching the actual pattern designing.
    I’ve personally struggled with non-experts teaching beginners because i did study it all in college. But I’ve realized it makes me much happier that all these non-experts are getting people to sew. That is what counts!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thanks, Heather. I knew you had some of those feelings before, but there is just so much talent out there - like you said. It’s great that these women can learn so much from the internet and books if they don’t have the time/money/etc. to go back to college!

  • Ramona

    Great ‘reply’. I have taken your course and had previously played with pattern design because I am hard to fit. But the main reason I took your course was to learn Illustrator and was very happy with the results. You just keep doing what you do and ignore the haters. They just take the happy out of your day.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Ramona! I’m glad you are happy with the course. :)

  • Julie Crawford

    haha, this was awesome! Great response. You keep doing your thing, let the haters waste their time moaning in chatrooms.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Julie! I needed that!

  • Justine

    Bravo Lauren ! I’m one of those who has a degree in fashion but not pattern design, and took your course to learn how to digitize since I have no clue about that, and to be honest, we didn’t learn much more in design school than how to make a decent sample pattern. So design school graduates aren’t that much more ahead of eager home learners. We worked through an entire text book that any home learner could buy. While i haven’t marketed any of my patterns, your course, gave valuable info on digitizing, which i never learned, and is actually a great deal for the boatload of stuff you teach. I read those forums and was surprised at how silly and full of conjecture they were. Let’s talk crap about a class none of us have ever taken!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you so much, Justine!!! I really needed these comments today! I take this stuff way too personally.

  • http://closetcasefiles.com/ Heather Lou

    I agree with all of this… but man, I wish you wouldn’t let Gomi get in your head so much. It’s really a tiny minority of people in our community, and while the crab mentality may be at work *there*, it’s certainly not the case with the rest of the sewing web (at least for those of us not hiding behind pseudonyms in a chat room somewhere). From what I’ve been told, apparently I’ve been roasted on a spit over there, but my self-preservation instinct is stronger than any masochistic desire to relive that traumatizing moment in high school when you’re peeing in a bathroom stall and a group of girls comes in to talk about how much they hate you.

    The reality is that is is simply impossible to be liked by everyone; if you were universally appreciated, you’d be as boring as a piece of Wonder bread. Strong opinions one way or another are a pretty good indication that you have something interesting to say or offer, even if it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. All this to say, I think that you’d probably be better off just blocking Gomi using a browser extension and then try to forget it even exists. I think letting those voices into your head too much isn’t productive or healthy. It won’t create better work. It just brings back all that self-conscious, self-hating stuff we’re supposed to be moving past as we get older and supposedly wiser. Do you, hard, and ignore the rest unless it’s coming directly from your real, actual, working customers. The rest is just noise.

    • http://seamstresserin.com/ SeamstressErin

      This is exactly what I needed to hear at this very moment. You are a rockstar in so many ways Heather. Thanks for chiming in with your awesome self-confident advice.

      • http://closetcasefiles.com/ Heather Lou

        Thanks Erin. That is the same advice I’ve been yelling at myself for the last year so I’m happy if you find it helpful in any way :)

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Heather - I did it because a blogger prompt told me to create a controversy. Haha. J/K. I actually did it for the pageviews. Kidding again. Maybe not. 😉

      • http://closetcasefiles.com/ Heather Lou

        Paste this somewhere you can see it:

        http://annfriedman.com/post/49152967734/in-my-ongoing-quest-for-the-perfect-framework-for

    • http://crafting-a-rainbow.tumblr.com/ Gillian

      So how do we block with a browser extension? Because I’d be hella into that!

      • http://closetcasefiles.com/ Heather Lou

        What’s your browser Gillian? If you google “block websites + your browser” there are probably a few plugins. I had to do it last year just to quell the self-destructive temptation to read the dark web’s unvarnished opinion of how I look, who I am, how I write, what I design, etc. etc.

        I know there is meaningful commentary and debate on that website but once it starts turning personal, it’s probably a good idea to stop reading 😉

      • http://www.cashmerette.blogspot.com/ Jenny R

        I have a Chrome blocker on GOMI!

        • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

          Good idea!

    • Caroline

      Heather, wanted to share this article I read this morning. I used to read GOMI and cry about it.. now I just don’t let myself go there. “Criticism that costs the critic nothing, is worth nothing.” xoxoxo

      http://acuff.me/2015/08/one-simple-way-to-figure-out-which-criticism-to-listen-to/

  • Vanessa

    Your classes are brilliant. I had no idea you were self taught- and I don’t care that you were. If anything I admire you more for it as I am a self taught sewist who built a home based business to reach sales of $140 000 per year. Keep up the awesome!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Vanessa! And congrats! Wow!

  • Rena

    Sounds like you are satisfying your customers and providing an in demand product. I just don’t get the GOMI thing - why does anyone read them?

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      It’s like a train wreck, I think. 😉

  • Teri Olson

    My advice - take what you can from GOMI and ignore the rest. If you look around the site there are useful pattern reviews and discussions. Focus on those or just ignore the site altogether and keep doing what you do well :) I agree that the free market will take care of everything else!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Teri!

  • Evie

    The only reason I ever check GOMI is to see what they’re hating on now…which is oftentimes something really useful to the rest of us who have better things to do with our life that sit around moaning about others…or better manners! I haven’t taken your course so I can’t comment on the content. But what I can comment on is the fact that you got off your a*&e and did something productive. Bravo to you and all your “sucker” students who are doing the same.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Yes, you’re right! Getting off one’s @$$ is half the battle, right?!

  • http://mattandhollicoats.blogspot.com hollisue

    You’re right on- and I personally think your class is a FANTASTIC value. Keep doing your thang. I checked out GOMI for the first time this week and I’m pretty happy to never go back. You can spend your life creating or you can spend your life destroying- those folks on GOMI can keep spending their time being destructive and filling the internet with negativity. Meanwhile, I’m gonna be over here making the world more awesome instead of complaining about others. Keep making things awesome!

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Holli!

  • Doreen Hickman

    In ANY industry there are self taught people , and the rest are just jealous! Lol ! You are doing a awesome job ! I totally agree …. Shake it off !

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you, Doreen!

  • tinman

    I have no idea what GOMI is and I am pleased as it seems the attack is not just on you but on your students, myself included. I am one of the students with a degree in fashion who has worked in the industry and lecturered as a patternmaker/CAD lecturer. I know how to make a pattern and grade it but my expertise is in using CAD programs such as PAD, StyleCAD, Gerber and Lectra. I had some knowledge of Illustrator but wanted to see how it could be used for creating PDF patterns. I knew nothing of InDesign. I could have taught myself how to use the programs but I am a mum to 3 young children and my time is precious. This course sped up my learning and as a result I know have a greater knowledge of how to create PDF patterns. Thank you Lauren for offering a course that even an experienced patternmaker can learn from.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you so much for sharing!!! :)

  • http://grosgraingreen.blogspot.co.uk Helen // Grosgrain Green

    I am constantly amazed that people will take the time and effort to just sit and hate on people, more often than not completely unfoundedly (is that a word?). i have never heard anyone complain about your course, so what’s the problem? It just baffles me, honestly. Good response, though, and keep up the good work.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Thank you so much, Helen. It has been a tough day; these comments are keeping my head up!

  • Fiona

    I thought the ‘American Dream’ was all about starting with very little but reaching for the stars?
    Isn’t that exactly what you are doing? Why is anyone criticising? The market will dictate how successful you are. Surely there is room for the big 4 as well as the small independants and also the hobbyist. Your product simply covers another aspect of pattern drafting.
    Here in the UK we have a glorious TV programme called ‘The Great British Sewing Bee’ and its all about untrained amateurs sewing their hearts out and thoroughly enjoying the gentle rivalry of a competition. All the competitors celebrate each others talents. At no time are any of them knocked for being ‘untrained’ and its interesting to see how many have been taught to sew and draft by untrained mothers and grandmothers. ‘Training’ can take many forms and it doesn’t have to include a graduation ceremony.

  • Mary

    Well said Lauren. I always miss the brouhaha by a couple of days-or weeks. It never fails to amaze me how bitchy (mostly) women can be about one another. There are some I know who are on GOMI with different names, but write blogs purporting to be mentors to sewists below their level of skill, and yet tear down anyone they don’t consider worthy. I have always tried to be encouraging and helpful to others (partly that Do Unto Others thing), but mostly because everyone benefits from a shout out. I have never heard any bad reviews on your class, only kudos & high praise for your helpfulness. As you say,,,haters gotta hate-but wouldn’t it be fun if they turned on each other for a change?

  • Lauren Ann Wernli

    Your Awesome Lauren. You never cease to amaze me, on your websites by how much you achieve, even with your full family life. I tell you what, I have learnt way more being out in the real world, than being in design school years ago! Technology is forever changing and if we think that we can go to design school and know it all then, we’re fooling ourselves. I took your course so that I could start learning some new skills and I will keep going with it as I love everything that it offers. The tall poppy syndrome is out there and there are always the knockers but it is those that rise above them that SHINES! Well done and keep on going your doing a great job! :)

  • Shelly Morgan

    Preach sister! We all know its the mean girls hang out over on GOMI. But that aside you know better than anybody what your class has done for the SBC. What was off limits and terribly difficult to learn (the technology curve) is now available and it has made people go bonkers. I have personally taken your class and although I haven’t released any patterns for profit, I am so grateful for what I learned in your class. It opened up a whole new graphic world that in many cases didn’t have anything to do with pattern making. And when I want to digitize something that I whipped up for my kids and share it, now I can. And just as you said, the cream will rise to the top. Innovators throughout history are known for raining on other peoples parades, but thats the only way things grow and get better. So keep preaching!

  • Francesca Amodeo

    No idea about any of this crap as I don’t do forums, just follow a few good blogs - like this:). So sad that people waste their precious time beings crabby. I was recently shocked to read on StephC’s blog about the saga she’s been through - apparently she had a bit of a meltdown after being attacked a few times by someone who used a pattern of hers - successfully. All while she’s going through a mega health crisis. Which shouldn’t even be relevant….. but made it worse for her. Such a lot of hate and viciousness - when i was hunting for reviews of a book, I even saw one particularly creepy bloggrr’s comment about how Stephen had come out with a new collection, but she wasn’t interested because of the meltdown. Honestly, talk about perpetuating and expanding…..
    The world is full of jealous people - so sad - there’s always something more to want, so let’s hate anyone who has something we might want. I love your shake it off attitude. My mother taught me to be a duck and let everything slide off me - but even more importantly, to count my blessings.
    femall, I say. You rock.

  • Lorelei Jayne

    I wanted to say thank you for this and for your course. I was designing before it, am self taught. I need to know for sure and quickly, easily and the best way to get my patterns on to digital formats. You did this for me. Since then I have expanded my business and continue with confidence that i just did not have before taking the course. I also heard a great interview with you on a podcast and it really impacted me!

    Keep going and keep inspiring

  • Mel Henry

    Haha! Powerpoint! I thought you were talking about me, lol. Seriously, thanks for this amazing course. I love how my little business turns out. I love how the passion I had for fashion design in my twenties came back. You are an example to follow! XOXOX

  • Caroline

    Read this article this morning and thought of this blog post. There is so much truth behind this, I think! “Criticism that costs the critic nothing, is worth nothing.”

    http://acuff.me/2015/08/one-simple-way-to-figure-out-which-criticism-to-listen-to/

  • http://www.townmouse.typepad.com Kristine

    Great response Lauren. You said it perfectly. And your course perfectly delivers what it says it’s going to deliver. I already know how to draft patterns. I wanted to know how to turn my patterns into PDF files. And your course delivered to the letter. I couldn’t be happier with the course fee I spent. It was the best money I’ve spent on my little enterprise in years.

    • http://www.laurendahl.com/ Lauren Dahl

      Oh thank you so much, Kristine! :) xoxo

  • Alyson Clair

    I have read it on a few occasions, and it’s HILARIOUS. I’m a professional patternmaker, and some of the things they suggest/”think” have me laughing. One time they thought there was a clearing house that pattern companies just buy patterns from. WTF?!? Don’t let it get to you, if anything it’s getting you more traffic, students, and sales.

    I work for pattern companies, small designers, and large companies, and my line. I’m booked 6+ months out, because there are not a lot of us. I also get the same bashing working for these companies but from merchants, consumers, and people at the companies that have zero understanding of fit and market demographic. Or even the basics of how business works.

    It’s totally kick ass that you are teaching what you do! There’s a huge lack of knowledge and YAY! you are making it accessible to people. Keep teaching!
    Also don’t let a few trolls bully you, they are most likely the same jerks that doesn’t understand that when you buy an $8 t-shirt at Target, someone got paid like 10cents to sew it.

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